Saturday, October 5, 2013

The Angels of Labor and Delivery


 September 24th, 2013

  On Tuesday I was on the labor and delivery unit at Makassed with Lindsay Hawkins. There was only 1 gal that was going to be coming in for a C-section later that day, so mostly we visited with the people working. At first the nurses and nursing students took us around to the different rooms of the Post-Partum unit and told of each delivery. There was one woman that my heart just went out to. She was admitted because of an ectopic pregnancy. They had given her medication to abort the baby but it hadn't worked for some reason. This lady was in immense pain! Can you imagine being 11 weeks along and having the baby in a place where babies really shouldn't be, not fun!  It was really hard to see her crying and in pain knowing they really couldn't do anything for her emotionally.  I have grown to love the people here so much! The one set of nursing students we met and talked with were from Gaza and had traveled at least 4 hours to get through customs each shift at the hospital. Their school was currently under strike for the tuition being raised, so they were worried they would have to quit nursing school and start over with clinical hours the following semester.  

    Interesting enough they were both born in the U.S. and spoke very good English, but had returned to Gaza around age 10. They talked to us about nurses training and answered our questions about their culture. It was fun because the one girl was engaged and had been for 6 months and still wasn't getting married until August. Can you imagine that long of an engagement! Definitely not your typical Mormon speed track! Anyways this may sound funny but the one (Esthma) proceeded to tell us she was engaged to her first cousin. She quickly followed this by saying "I know you don't do this in America, but it is our culture." I loved that she was willing to share and help us learn even if she knew we wouldn't agree. Another nurse we talked to was named Olah (like hi in Spanish!). She was the sweetest lady ever! She kept following us into rooms saying ask me any questions you would like. So on our down time we went to visit. As we talked about the unit and her career, she said Labor and Delivery was the happiest nursing place. She had worked there 17 years and didn't want to change anything! She loved seeing the new babies born and the pregnant mothers.

   It was also cool to see how open about God Olah was.  We didn't talk about religion or certain beliefs but she just kept talking about God and how he doesn't punish people with sickness. Something that she said that I think we all need to remember is "Illness/death doesn't know male from female, rice from poor, or child from adult" She talked about how we need to give thanks to God for everything, especially our health and our families health. She was so thankful for life and to still be living and 8 months pregnant herself! I learned a lot about how to appreciate life and love what you've been blessed with. I also realized we don't need to preach, teach, and proselyte everywhere we go. We can show we are converted to God by inviting Him into our conversations and by openly being thankful to God for our blessings. I hope I can someday make this big of an impact on the lives of others!

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